How has your life changed since starting college?

made friends

The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

Why do some people never get to on a date even though they wanted to? Are they just too ugly and weird for everybody?

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

Why did my ex of 2 years move on so fast after he left me? Why does he act so cold towards me, and as if I don't exist?

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.

Why cant school buses ditch kids who are late to the bus at the school? Like on the way home, if a kid is late when all the others arrived to the bus on time, why cant they leave the late kid behind since its not fair to the on time kids to wait?

From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.

Democrat voters, why are you so naive, easy to manipulate, can't see a liar standing right in front of you and why won't you research your party? You will find they have a plan for all W. Nations and it's evil.

There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

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What are some reasons why some men choose to live alone instead of getting married?

How has your life changed since starting college?

I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

I’ve realized the real value of money.

Relocating to Sweden to save money. I got a job offer of 47000SEK before tax, visas sponsored for my wife & my mother (with a laryngectomy). My wife, a general medicine graduate, wants to specialize in Sweden. Can we live well and save 4000€ monthly?

-Hitesha.

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

Overthinking is killing me day-by-day. What should I do?

Confidence is the key.

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I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.

What is your response when someone says "how may I help you"?

It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

Whenever I write a novel, I struggle with the end, should I make it open? Should the good win or the bad win? Sometime I don't even have an ending, what should I do?

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

Thanks for reading my answer.

From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

Do you like wearing short skirts?

Let’s come to the answer.

I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

Thinking from a spiritual perspective, can we say that the journey in recovering from narcissistic abuse a battle of spiritual warfare? Any thoughts on this?

I’ve become more responsible.

For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.

What kind of book did you write after turning 55?

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

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